Published in My Writes·Mar 28Talk To The HandA quick hood lesson, for button-pushers and habitual line-steppers LANGUAGE WARNING (in case the above meme didn’t make that clear) This essay is not an attempt to defend, excuse, or justify Will Smith’s actions during the Academy Award telecast. He doesn’t need me to do that. Doesn’t pay me to…Violence5 min read
Published in My Writes·Jan 2Stop Being A Punk, StefLessons learned in Pandemic Year 2, and how to do better in the 2–2 I was really ready to come back outside, y’all. But Delta has transmogrified to Omicron, and a bunch of my favorite people turned up positive between Thanksgiving and New Year’s and…heavy sigh. I now feel like…Memoir5 min read
Published in The DNA Journey·Dec 31, 2021Still On The JourneyWhat another crazy year has taught me about me For all of you who follow The DNA Journey series, I thank you for coming along for the ride. 2021, despite ending on just a slightly more upbeat point in the pandemic than this time 365 days ago, has not been…Family4 min read
Published in My Writes·Sep 16, 2021For The Brothers Who Ain’t HereSo many former loves, now tragic farewells I f^cking hate funerals. Figured I’d lead with the distasteful, potentially offensive statement, so I could get it out of the way early. The reasons for my feelings are vast. The sheer expense of funerals and their accoutrement, for starters. Even if you…Grief4 min read
Published in The DNA Journey·Sep 5, 2021The DNA Journey: How Far Back Does Your “Family” Go?A pondering on generations and disconnect I really like the above image. Even though it is not of my own family, it is a reflection of the inclusive rainbow that surrounds me when I am hanging out with my closest cousins, their partners, and kids. My cousin Dianne is inadvertently…Genealogy4 min read
Published in The DNA Journey·Aug 28, 2021We Have Liftoff!The video venture is off to a solid start Hey, fellow gene sleuths! Dropping in your inboxes for a quick update and check-in. I am pleased to report that my new video series, Blood At The Roots, has been well-received. I’m now 2 episodes in, and think I’ll be able…Updates2 min read
Published in The DNA Journey·Jul 30, 2021Coming Atcha Live!Expanding this conversation to the moving image Subscribers, thank you for sticking with me through a bit of a prolonged silence. I was a super busy girl through this past spring, working on some very meaningful projects for some of my media and PR clients. …Video3 min read
Published in The DNA Journey·Feb 19, 2021The DNA Journey: Assume NothingThere really is a devil in the details, sometimes Greetings, fellow genealogy sleuths! If I have learned anything at all over the past five years of my journey, it’s that occasionally you have to go back over the things you think you know with a fine tooth comb. …Genealogy6 min read
Published in The DNA Journey·Jan 24, 2021The DNA Journey: Don’t It Make You Mad?To come so far, and yet… Stand down, newbies! Disgruntled genealogist coming thruuuuuuu… Friends and subscribers, welcome to the Third Decade of the Third Millennium of this here modern age. Nope, no flying cars yet. (And are we really mad about that? Some of you fail horribly at parallel parking.) …Genealogy4 min read
Published in My Writes·Nov 5, 2020Circling Back, Not The DrainListen, I’m not sure where you stand with this whole election biz, but I took some time to share some thoughts about it today in a new piece titled Same As It Ever Was, inspired by the Talking Heads’ tune Once In A Lifetime. I don’t know how often I’ll…Check In2 min read